Understanding the lingo and "alphabet soup" of seduction ...
From ATC to IOI: The Top 10 Terms You Need to Know in the Seduction Community
By James Brito
"Science is organized knowledge. Wisdom is organized life." - Immanuel Kant
Welcome to the first edition of Everything You Always
Wanted to Know About Seduction (But Were Afraid to Ask!).
This series is designed to help you expand your wisdom in the
world of attraction and seduction. As I said in a previous
post, women love men with knowledge, so the more you know,
the more powerful you become. Everything associated with
wisdom and knowledge–wit, talents, special skills, knowing
what women want, etc.–makes you a superior man.
It’s my mission to make you a magnet of information,
attracting all the positive stuff, repelling all the negative
stuff. There’s no sense wasting your time with information
and emotions that don’t make you a superior man (example: the
many, many pickup books that are an absolute waste of time).
So I’m going to help you attract the information YOU need to
know, to get the girls you want!
To do that, I’ll be sharing my favorite websites for quality information. Here you can learn all the things you should do…and all the things you shouldn’t!
The first website you need to know about is UrbanDictionary.com.
So much of the seduction community is centered around terms, initials, and euphemisms. There’s IOI, DHV, negging, cocky funny, inner wuss, ATC, frame control–you name it, there’s a term for it. Knowing these terms isn’t crucial, but the meaning of the terms themselves is very special knowledge. For example, you don’t necessarily need to know that ATC means Artificial Time Constraint, but understanding the concept of only spending a limited time around women before taking off, is invaluable.
Urbandictionary.com is a great website for sorting out all the terms. Enjoy, and remember: Knowledge is only as good as putting into action. Follow the lead of Kahlil Gibran:
"A little knowledge that acts is worth infinitely more than much knowledge that is idle."
Here’s just a sample of the informative (and often hilarious) terms found in this website:
UrbanDictionary.com Definition of…
Love
"Often confused with infatuation by adolescents, college
students and even supposedly mature people. Love is not the
often associated chemical reaction which has similar effects
on the brain as cocaine, nor is it the inability to be
without that person for a day."
-OMG! I’m sooo in love with Brad Pitt!!
-No you’re not. You just want his small wang. You don’t even
know him!
-*Cries* No, I will marry him! I’m going to go home and
fantasize about him! *Cries and runs away*
UrbanDictionary.com Definition of…
Kino
"The act of making flirtatious physical contact with a person
of sexual interest. Generally considered to be a vital tool
in one’s ‘Game Belt.’"
Hopefully I can get some action by using a little kino on the
ladies tonight.
UrbanDictionary.com Definition of…
Oneitis
"Often confused with love, this is the feeling that a
particular woman is actually special. This is just an
illusion; she is the same as the other three or so billion."
‘Go **** ten other women’ is the most commonly prescribed
treatment for this "disease" (hence the "itis"), as it tends
to show quite quickly how very alike people are.
In other words, get over yourself and your obsession with
that girl, because it’s just an illusion. And when you get
rejected, don’t be depressed. Because there’s really not much
to worry about."
Dude, you definitely have oneitis for that girl. You’ve been
talking about her nonstop for the past week. Don’t you
realize she’s nothing special, and that you are just being
fooled? Snap out of it so you won’t be so depressed when she
rejects you!
UrbanDictionary.com Definition of…
Neg
"A light insult wrapped in the package of a complement. Used
by pick-up artists to gain and maintain the attention of
women who possess uncommon beauty (9+). These women are
immune to standard complements."
The classic neg
pua - "you have beautiful nails, are they real?"
(9+) -"not really"
pua - "Oh, I guess thats still cool"
pua - "that’s really cute, your nose wiggles when you speak"
(9+) -"no it doesn’t"
pua - "ha ha, there it goes again, sorry, its just really
cute"
"I just kept tossing neg after neg at that 10 standing by the
bar, and she loved it, she was giving me crazy kino"
UrbanDictionary.com Definition of…
DHV
"Noun: Demonstration of Higher Value
Verb: Demonstrate Higer Value
Presentation that will increase your value in the opinion of
your audience."
I related a funny and cocky joke as a DHV.
UrbanDictionary.com Definition of…
AMOG
"Alpha Male Of the Group
A guy that everyone thinks is cool and is always the social
center of the room."
Bob: Dude, why is everyone crowding arounding that bag of
douche?
Me: Cause he’s a total AMOG
UrbanDictionary.com Definition of…
Beta Male
"An unremarkable, careful man who avoids risk and
confrontation. Beta males lack the physical presence,
charisma and confidence of the Alpha male."
Pete knew he was losing the girl he’d just met at the bar to
the guy who bought her a drink, but he was too much of a beta
male to do anything about it.
UrbanDictionary.com Definition of…
Sarging
"Verb; to Sarge.
The act of engaging conversational rapport with a complete
stranger.
Though tied to the seduction community as the official name
for being "on the hunt," the term also applies in business
and interpersonal relations, as the act of appearing as a
socially versatile and competent person.
Credit to Ross Jeffries, who claims to have named the act
after his cat."
in seduction:
"My wingman and I went sarging last night at club X."
other:
"The goal in business is to sarge your coworkers as soon as
you start working there. It’s a quick way to appear
competent!"
UrbanDictionary.com Definition of…
mPUA
"Master Pick Up Artist.
Used to refer to one who has attained legendary status
within the ‘Pick Up Artist’ community. Originally used to
refer solely to Neil Strauss, aka Style. Referenced in
Strauss’s book ‘The Game’."
Man Style kept eight girls on the go, he truly is a mPUA.
And now, my personal favorite definition…
Friendship
"A method of castrating men without using sharp objects."
From David DeAngelo’s article:
She looked at him with compassion in her eyes and said "Thank
you… I really mean that… but I don’t want to mess up our
friendship… you’re too important to me…"
Now that’s something you definitely want to avoid! And if you want to make sure the words "just friends" never enter your eardrums again, visit the place that turns men around the world from "just friends" to "seduction masters":
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Relationship expert, James Brito, delves into the secrets of female attraction and seduction. Since 2000, the bestselling author of "How to Be Irresistible to Women" and "The Art of Impressing Women" has helped thousands of men world-wide to attract the women of their dreams. Be the next success story by signing up for James' free six-part audio mini-course at:
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